Lover vs Haters

From this topic, I think you can understand the core thought of this story. Yeah we will travel with these two paths in same time. Meanwhile I would like to share something with you all. I think you all knew about our mind magnet already. If not, I can share here in simple words that will be help you to understand about it. Our mind is like a magnet. It attracts what we show to this universe and what we sow our thoughts to persons. Even our mind also has two poles. The positive pole and a negative pole but here our mind only attract same pole. Every philosopher and most successful persons has very own thoughts to them for achieve their goals, fulfil their dreams and most important thing is to be happy forever.

Some reader’s voice raise over to me, from all the above things and thoughts already known, Is there anything new from you? Yes, I have a new way. Let we go inside the story. Stay engaged with this story till the end of this journey. In our life have more favourite things. It means we like more than other things right? Yes but it doesn’t mean other things we hate than our favourite. So we like the most ever than any is our favourite. Okay let me start what I am trying to share with you on this day. 

Our day to day life we have face more people and very few people stay with us from past and present then future too because everyone has both good and bad in their own life. but, we are all never treat everyone in same way. We have some priority with some persons. The level of priority differed by depend the people we liked most. So we adjust the people even they had any bad attitude. But the good and bad of others only judged and decide by us.

We are all the audience of other people who play beyond us and behind us. I mean some people well play behind us. In these days we all have some fun things in various ways like party, movie, with friends and with some troll about something. In sometimes we had a fun with other person’s inability, mistakes, and failures. It’s not a good one in all time. 

Now this generation people have some type of habit. Which is finding a mistake of anyone is all time job of them. 

For example, 

All we have a favourite celebrity who is actor, actress, sportsman business man and even any leader also. We take their success and happiness like ours. Every celebrity has both fans and haters. Fans celebrate their (celebrity’s) success. Haters celebrate their failures.

My small humble word for them, If you like anyone celebrate when they get success and support when they face any failures. If you don’t like them, Please ignore their activities from your calendar. Just because it may change your habit to love anything you want. When your mind magnet attracts from which you most like. It will be doubled and tripled and multiplied with more happiness. More and more things you like will come near to you. When your mind magnet attracts from whom u want to get any trouble. Those trouble or sad moment you also evolve by subconsciously.

Why you want to bring others down, Instead of you never try to grow up. The old quote but gold one, Try to see good in everything. Some people never see single good habit in anyone. Always try to find others mistake and broadcast to this world, those things made them happier than own happiness. We must change from those thoughts from our mind.

Simple word to be happy forever ignore which you hurt more, whom you never want to meet again, where you never want to see again. Just put your energy to whichever you liked most. Whatever things makes happy please do repeat. 

Our world has more haters and fewer lovers. So only I titled lover in singular and haters in plural.

Some grammatical kings and queens spotted my titled. Oh it’s a mistake made here by him. Frankly say I am propaganda of good things. So please start your new habit from ignoring my mistakes and evolve whichever you liked from my words.

When we love something (bike, car, home, land, pet, job, gadgets) we won’t expect from those things to love us again, but when we love any person we must expect their love in return. If they fail or don’t want to love you back you get start to hate them. It’s hard to understand but when you ready for this. You won’t get any disappointments. If you love someone, when they reject you for any reason, just try to make their decision was wrong without hurting them or hating them only by your absence. So you ignore their activity from your calendar instead of add more experience and happiness to your days.

Only the thing makes you strong. Its love, the same thing makes you weak when you give to who can’t afford you. So take a part of lover, not in haters. All we need to make lover into plural lovers in our world.

-Pradhap Mohan